Stories to push you forward.
For those born with an innate sense of wanderlust, it can be difficult to imagine there are others who don’t share the same yearning to move.
But for some, traveling isn’t a series of glittering memories.
When prompted to pack a suitcase and brave the rails, road, or sky, be it across the world or a stone’s throw away, they see not picturesque walks along riverbanks, new aromas wafting their way, or foreign tongues catching their ears. They see long queues, packing restrictions, and suffocating crowds.
Above all, they see the unknown.
The idea of traveling alone can be even more jarring.
Still, even if you’re afraid of traveling alone, you might feel a quiet stirring within you to test yourself and see how far you can go, both on the map and in your mind.
Doing so requires quieting the anxieties bubbling beneath the surface and turning your attention to the voice of optimism pushing you forward.
These books will feed that voice.
The shortlist: 4 books on traveling alone to feed your wanderlust
Instructions for Traveling West — for encouragement when travels are difficult
Wild — for courage to push yourself out of your comfort zone
The Barbizon — for inspiration to chase a dream
Roundabout to Moscow — for a reminder to always stay curious
4 books about traveling alone to inspire your next trip
The clichés of traveling are true, I fear.
It, quite literally, expands your horizons and pushes you past the geography, language, and culture that have contained and shaped you.
You meet new people, smell new smells, savor (or spit out) new tastes, and learn that the world and its inhabitants, customs, and philosophies are far more numerous than that which you’ve encountered—or will ever. For no matter how many flights we board or rails we cross, we simply can’t see everything, leaving many lessons unlearned and stories unread.
All this to say, traveling is always worth the effort because we always return home with a new perspective about ourselves, the world, and everything we thought we knew.
If you’ve never traveled alone before and you’re hesitant to try, let these stories inspire you.
I love this book so much that I no longer own it.
I gave it to a friend last year who had recently moved into a new apartment in a new city by herself. I hoped it would give her the same balm it did me.
Written by Joy Sullivan during the pandemic, this collection of poems recounts the emotional aftermath of leaving: getting a divorce; quitting one’s job; moving across the country.
As in solo travel, there’s loneliness in leaving. But loneliness is the necessary precursor to self-discovery, growth, and paths towards greater things:
“First, you must realize you’re homesick for all the lives you’re not living. Then, you must commit to the road and the rising loneliness. To the sincere thrill of coming apart.”
During your solo travels, there will likely be moments where you feel you’re “coming apart.” That means you’re on the road to somewhere worthwhile. Keep trekking.
About the author: Joy Sullivan (unknown) is a poet and educator. She was the poet-in-residence for the Wexner Center for the Arts and has guest-lectured at Stanford, Florida State University, and other institutions. She now leads writing workshops and writes the newsletter, Necessary Salt.
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I can’t stop talking about this book.
I’ve also included it among my recommendations for Books for Existential Dread and Books You Can Read in a Day.
When you’re short on strength and need respite fast, poetry is an always reliable cure.
A sensation of the 2010s, Cheryl Strayed’s memoir also lives on in a 2014 film adaptation, in which Reese Witherspoon portrays the author’s daring quest to hike 1,000+ miles of the Pacific Crest Trail—without training, guidance, or companionship.
It’s another poignant memoir that gives credence to the cliché: Particularly in periods of transition when what we thought were constants in our lives begin to give way, voluntarily displacing ourselves (however temporarily) is sometimes the only way to regain balance and rediscover ourselves.
Or as is blithely summarized in small talk at parties, “Solo travel helped me find myself.”
The loss of a parent and the end of a marriage are likely more relatable to a middle-aged audience, but younger readers can also find comfort in Strayed’s story as a reminder that the power to redesign your life and start anew is always within you.
About the author: Cheryl Strayed (1968—) is an American writer and podcast host. In addition to “Wild,” she’s written two nonfiction books, “Tiny Beautiful Things” and “Brave Enough,” and one novel, “Torch.”
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This book tells the story of a different kind of solo travel. Not one of visiting foreign lands for cultural or self-discovery but to begin a new life—and leave an old one behind.
In “The Barbizon,” Paulina Bren tells the history of the Barbizon Hotel and its evolution from a respectable women’s boarding house to “the go-to destination for any young American woman with a dream to be something more.”
Up until its closure in 1981, the women’s-only hotel hosted was a temporary home to “young women with artistic aspirations,” including names such as Sylvia Plath, Joan Didion, Grace Kelly, and Betsey Johnson.
The most courageous solo trip one can take is with a one-way ticket, leaving behind all that is familiar for the promise of a better life.
Though your next (or first) solo trip may include a return ticket, the stories of the young women who journeyed to The Barbizon are an inspiring reminder to take risks, move outside your comfort zone, and actively pursue becoming the person you want to be.
About the author: Paulina Bren (1966—) is an American writer, historian, and Adjunct Professor of Multidisciplinary Studies on the Pittsburgh Endowment Chair in the Humanities at Vassar College. Born in Brno, Czechoslovakia, her early work focused on postwar Europe. In recent years, she’s turned her attention to women’s history. In 2024, she wrote She-Wolves: The Untold History of Women on Wall Street.
Available at Bookshop.org
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Published in 1887, this travelogue captures John Bell Bouton’s journey to Russia and his experiences of new-to-him cuisine, landscapes, and people.
Without the ease of modern technologies that make it easy to feel at home even when we’re on the other side of the world, it goes without saying that traveling (and traveling alone) in the 19th century was an altogether different kind of experience than we know today.
Still, Bouton’s reflections remain relatable as they underscore one of the timeless benefits of traveling alone: freedom to let our curiosity lead us.
Like “Instructions for Traveling West,” “Wild,” and “The Barbizon,” this solo travel book focuses not on destinations but on the desires to begin traveling and the many complications and delights encountered along the way.
About the author: John Bell Bouton (1830—1902) was an American newspaper editor, journalist, and author. He also published a novel exploring male friendship, Round the Block: An American Novel.
Available at Bookshop.org and Project Gutenberg
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Books on solo travel—my top pick
Poetry is always a good idea.
Maybe you’re contemplating a cross-country road trip or a spontaneous trek to the other side of the world. Perhaps you just need a change of scenery, and a cozy weekend alone in the next over will do.
Joy Sullivan’s poems can help you tune into heart’s yearnings so your feet can lead you where your soul needs to go.
Conclusion: Books on traveling alone remind us of what is possible
There’s something inherently stirring about the open road.
When we move beyond our known territories (even just for a weekend), we allow ourselves to move into new ways of thinking and consider different realities.
For embarking on the open road alone is as much a journey within as it is outward, giving you the chance to explore not only different tastes, sights, and sounds but different vesions of yourself.
When travel feels out of reach, overwhelming, or otherwise unmanageable, books on traveling alone remind us that it’s never too late to begin the journey. We need only the courage to take the first step forward.
Next Steps:
Choose the first book that piques your interest. Don’t overthink it (and don’t put it off and keep scrolling). Not sure where to start. Just read a few pages to start. Joy Sullivan’s Instructions for Traveling West is short but powerful reading.
Pick a day your next (or first) solo trip. It doesn’t have to be far to be worthwhile. Why not take a day trip to a neighboring town where you don’t know anyone and the streets are unusual?
If you’ve never traveled alone before, practice doing things alone first in a place you feel comfortable in. A Merry Loner’s 7-Day Do Things Alone Challenge guides you through a week of bite-sized challenges to get more comfortabel (and confident) doing things alone without feeling lonely.
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Books on Traveling Alone: FAQs
What are some good travel books to invoke wanderlust?
Roundabout to Moscow by John Bell Bouton is a 19th-century travelogue that inspires dreamy fantasies of crossing Europe by train. If you’re tired of RyanAir and crowded airports and want a slower, more romantic way to travel, start here.
What are the most inspirational books on traveling that you have read?
Cheryl Strayed’s Wild tells the tale of a recent divorcée who sets off to hike 1,000+ miles of the Pacific Crest Trail alone. It’s an inspiring story of challenging yourself, quite literally moving outside of your comfort zone, and finding it in you to anew when life comes undone.
What is the best book you have read which has inspired you to travel and live abroad?
The Barbizon by Paulina Bren isn’t a modern memoir on becoming a digital nomad or bacpacking around the world. But in my eyes, it does much more to incite solo travel and inspire you to leave what you know a build the life you’ve been dreaming of.
What are some good books to read while travelling?
While traveling alone, I suggest bringing along Joy Sullivan’s collection of poems, Instructions for Traveling West. Compared to a dense novel, it’s easy to start or end each day of your journey by reading one poem—and her verses on “commit[ting] to the road” and “the sincere thrill of coming apart” will help you stay the course even when things get tough.
Merry
Merry is the blogger behind A Merry Loner, a full-time freelance writer, and a lifelong bookworm. Since kindergarten, it was her dream to become a novelist. (She likes to think she's headed in the right direction.) Born and raised in Rhode Island, where she earned a triple-major BA in writing, communication, and French from the University of Rhode Island, she moved to Toulouse, France after the pandemic to complete a master's in creative writing at Univeristé Toulouse Jean — Jaurès. She now lives in Paris with husband.
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